Do What You LOVE.


Re blogged from Lead. Learn. Live.This may be a bit of a post but it just might be the best five-minute read of your life. 

I came across this post from Lead. Learn. Live. who wrote about Paul Graham’s “How To Do What You Love”. Graham’s essay  is quite lengthy but you must read its entirety that offers what may be the best-thought essay on this subject.

Sometimes it takes forever for people to figure out what they want in life. Some very lucky ones though have their Aha! moment, their defining moment early on in life. For the average person( those who are not born with a silver spoon in their mouth) will have to go through certain stages in life:college, rat race, rat race, rat race…before they say, Aha! And then they see the light.

Follow your bliss, said Joseph Campbell. But for now, we have to pay our bills 🙂

Let’s help and encourage each other to find that which we love doing and get paid doing it (BLISS). My husband and I have finally seen the light. We are making bold decisions and pray and hope and more importantly ACT and WORK to get there.

Even just arriving at that clarity moment, that Aha! moment brings so much energy, joy and a sense of fulfillment for yourself that you know what you ought to do. The next hurdle is what steps to take and to have the patience when to take those steps.

I have made some really bold decisions in my life very recently and I’ve never felt so alive and so excited of the things to come. My husband has taken a really big leap too. He has left the corporate world as President of a Software company. Just one Sunday morning he just declared that he is going to law school! And left his good-paying job to go to Law School! Yes, life is a choice!

I hope I’ve shared some wisdom and have inspired you to seek and wait for that Aha!moment.

-Marryl

Here’s an excerpt from Paul Graham’s “How To Do What You Love”

“To do something well you have to like it. That idea is not exactly novel. We’ve got it down to four words: “Do what you love.” But it’s not enough just to tell people that. Doing what you love is complicated.”

…How much are you supposed to like what you do? Unless you know that, you don’t know when to stop searching. And if, like most people, you underestimate it, you’ll tend to stop searching too early. You’ll end up doing something chosen for you by your parents, or the desire to make money, or prestige—or sheer inertia.

…Here’s an upper bound: Do what you love doesn’t mean, do what you would like to do most this second. Even Einstein probably had moments when he wanted to have a cup of coffee, but told himself he ought to finish what he was working on first…Unproductive pleasures pall eventually. After a while you get tired of lying on the beach. If you want to stay happy, you have to do something…

…As a lower bound, you have to like your work more than any unproductive pleasure. You have to like what you do enough that the concept of “spare time” seems mistaken…I put the lower bound there for practical reasons. If your work is not your favorite thing to do, you’ll have terrible problems with procrastination. You’ll have to force yourself to work, and when you resort to that the results are distinctly inferior.

…To be happy I think you have to be doing something you not only enjoy, but admire. You have to be able to say, at the end, wow, that’s pretty cool.

…What you should not do, I think, is worry about the opinion of anyone beyond your friends. You shouldn’t worry about prestige. Prestige is the opinion of the rest of the world. When you can ask the opinions of people whose judgment you respect, what does it add to consider the opinions of people you don’t even know? …This is easy advice to give. It’s hard to follow, especially when you’re young.  Prestige is like a powerful magnet that warps even your beliefs about what you enjoy. It causes you to work not on what you like, but what you’d like to like….Prestige is just fossilized inspiration. If you do anything well enough, you’ll make it prestigious. Plenty of things we now consider prestigious were anything but at first. Jazz comes to mind—though almost any established art form would do. So just do what you like, and let prestige take care of itself…Prestige is especially dangerous to the ambitious. If you want to make ambitious people waste their time on errands, the way to do it is to bait the hook with prestige….Similarly, if you admire two kinds of work equally, but one is more prestigious, you should probably choose the other. Your opinions about what’s admirable are always going to be slightly influenced by prestige, so if the two seem equal to you, you probably have more genuine admiration for the less prestigious one.

…The test of whether people love what they do is whether they’d do it even if they weren’t paid for it—even if they had to work at another job to make a living. How many corporate lawyers would do their current work if they had to do it for free, in their spare time, and take day jobs as waiters to support themselves?

…With such powerful forces leading us astray, it’s not surprising we find it so hard to discover what we like to work on. Most people are doomed in childhood by accepting the axiom that work = pain. Those who escape this are nearly all lured onto the rocks by prestige or money. How many even discover something they love to work on? A few hundred thousand, perhaps, out of billions.

…It’s hard to find work you love; it must be, if so few do. So don’t underestimate this task. And don’t feel bad if you haven’t succeeded yet. In fact, if you admit to yourself that you’re discontented, you’re a step ahead of most people, who are still in denial. If you’re surrounded by colleagues who claim to enjoy work that you find contemptible, odds are they’re lying to themselves. Not necessarily, but probably.

…”Always produce” is also a heuristic for finding the work you love. If you subject yourself to that constraint, it will automatically push you away from things you think you’re supposed to work on, toward things you actually like. “Always produce” will discover your life’s work the way water, with the aid of gravity, finds the hole in your roof.

…But it’s harder than it looks. Constraints give your life shape. Remove them and most people have no idea what to do: look at what happens to those who win lotteries or inherit money. Much as everyone thinks they want financial security, the happiest people are not those who have it, but those who like what they do. So a plan that promises freedom at the expense of knowing what to do with it may not be as good as it seems.

…Whichever route you take, expect a struggle. Finding work you love is very difficult. Most people fail. Even if you succeed, it’s rare to be free to work on what you want till your thirties or forties. But if you have the destination in sight you’ll be more likely to arrive at it. If you know you can love work, you’re in the home stretch, and if you know what work you love, you’re practically there.

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8 thoughts on “Do What You LOVE.

  1. I truly enjoyed this post. Following our heart and doing what we love the most is the key to happiness and contentment. We don’t have to travel far to find what we seek. All we have to do is listen to our heart’s deepest longings. Have a blessed day my friend…

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  2. This is so nice Giel. Thanks for the inspiration. I’m still looking for that AHA! moment in my life and I believe I’m almost there 🙂 Blessings galore for you and your family Giel!

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    • Yes, claim the blessings. Thanks! Please do pay it forward and inspire others to be crafty or anything to help them lead the good life.

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